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On today’s episode, we discuss how your life is more important than your yard.
- how to focus on your life first
- how to adjust your maintenance routine
- how to reduce yard maintenance
- why prioritization is important
Links for today’s episode:
- Launch Partay!
- How to save 27 hours of work
- Consult with Ben
- Paul Tukey
- Rolling River Nursery
this is the aesthetic ecosystems podcast
I’m Ben Hale your virtual design guide
to help you and your family have a
healthy beautiful landscape with less
work what’s up and welcome to the
aesthetic ecosystems of odd cast this is
episode one of the aesthetic ecosystems
podcast that’s right the first episode
of many to come and we’re talking about
all the things you can do to have a
low-maintenance landscape something
beautiful but also it doesn’t take tons
of work to maintain and how to have a
healthy landscape at the same time
healthy for you healthy for your family
and healthy for your yard before we get
into all sorts of tips and tricks and
hacks and design fundamentals in future
episodes today we’re going to be talking
about some top-level stuff mindset
having the right mindset in order to
have a landscape like this is very
important and what the right priorities
are for you and your family and your
landscape now I’m super excited that you
guys are here with me today this is the
first episode like I said of many to
come and in order to celebrate this
excitement we’re having a launch party
stay tuned at the end of episode 4
details this launch party is gonna be
full of interaction giveaways and other
things to come that will celebrate this
excitement of this new podcast and I
really want you to be involved as well
and have you hopefully have a chance to
win some of these giveaways so stay
tuned for the details on that towards
the end of the podcast now today like I
said is about the right mindset for your
yard in your life now this may seem kind
of cerebral or fancy or or whatever or
maybe it’s too la la la but this is very
important actually so if you think about
it your yard and your lifestyle are very
directly connected if you have a house
and you have a yard which
guessing you probably do if you’re
listening to a home in gardening podcast
so if you have a yard odds are you have
to maintain it or you have to pay to
maintain it so in order for that
maintenance either time or costs
involved that directly affects your
lifestyle how much time you have to
spend on your yard or how much money
that you spend time to earn gets spent
on your yard and so this podcast is
about reducing that maintenance burden
in order for you to have more value more
time in your life left to pursue things
that are more important again that might
seem like a stretch but to me that is
fundamentally important to the
principles of low maintenance landscape
design and how it applies to you and the
really important pieces you need to know
to change your yard for the better to
have less work increase your health and
increase beauty at the same time so
there’s one core principle here in this
whole episode if you take away one thing
This Is It this mindset piece right here
your family and your lifestyle are far
more important than your yard again this
may seem kind of silly but I see so many
people that have this flipped around we
live on a street with just a about 20
homes on our street and of those homes I
see the majority of these people slaving
away at their landscapes every weekend
of the summer sometimes some people
every single day of the week they’re out
there working in their yard and I don’t
want that to be you there are far more
important things you can do with your
life whether it’s just sitting out in
your yard and enjoying it or making a
difference in the world or spending time
with your family whatever it is there
are far more important things than
having to go take care of your yard and
to spend time working on your yard and
so if you don’t understand that your
family and your lifestyle are more
important than your yard and actually
sit down and reflect on whether you have
those priorities straight then you may
be spending way
too much time on your yard than you need
to
what really boils down to with this
principle is time and focus in your life
are very important and where that time
and focus is directed is very important
so when you’re spending time cutting
your grass or edging or weeding or
whatever that time is taking away from
something else you could spend in your
life you only have a limited number of
hours every week in your life
from whoever you are that everybody has
the same number of hours per week some
people choose to spend it on making
their lives better pursuing their dreams
making the world better and some people
choose to spend that time on relaxing
and enjoying life contemplating life
some people choose to spend that time on
tasks that they feel need to be done and
maybe just don’t have to be done or
maybe things can be changed where those
tasks don’t have to be done as often and
that’s what we’re talking about here is
that certain yard maintenance tasks we
can design those out or design to reduce
those so you don’t have to do them as
often or as long duration and instead
you can take that time and reapply it to
something that makes a difference in
your life in the world around you now
I’ve already put something together that
can help you get time back right now
with just some simple things you can do
in your landscape today and throughout
the rest of the year that will give you
these simple habit changes so if you
want to check that out check it out in
the show notes or go to aesthetic
ecosystems comm slash 27 hours
that’s aesthetic ecosystems calm slash
to seven hours and you can get that free
giveaway right now so back to the
mindset stuff what this can do is it
allows you to have more time for your
own pursuits so
by having an easy to maintain yard you
can free up time to do more important
things in your life anything from
spending time with your family to doing
something even amazing and great that
changes the world
maybe it’s helping out with charity or
creating your own charitable
organization or designing some outreach
programs whatever it is everything
starts with the tiniest little bit
whether it’s getting time back from your
landscape or making drastic changes in
your lifestyle and what I’m talking
about here is making small changes in
your landscape
small changes in your mindset that allow
you to have more time and more freedom
in your life look we’re all busy these
days right everybody’s got a job they’ve
got kids they’re shuffling around
different programs we’ve got some
semblance of a social life hope
hopefully that we can you know spend
time with a few friends on the weekend
or whatever it is but all that stuff
takes up a lot of time and it’s all very
important stuff in order to have a good
healthy lifestyle with the people around
us and the people we care about but the
parts that aren’t is important is things
like these scheduled tasks that we have
to do or that we think we have to do
that maybe don’t improve life so much
and things like our landscape are very
very important to having a nice home but
at the same time they aren’t so
important to have to spend ton time on
so with a difference in design or a
difference in how you maintain your
landscape instead of having to schedule
your life around your landscape tasks
you can schedule your tasks around your
life and so if you have to delay
something a few days or even a week or
so it might not be a big deal at all
instead of having to do a certain task
at a certain time or your landscapes
gonna look like a mess this allows you
flexibility in your lifestyle allows
flexibility to delay maintenance and
flexibility to do the things you wanted
do when you want to do them and be a bit
more impulsive about it at the same time
sometimes to change your yard into
something where it’s more flexible it
takes less time to maintain sometimes
this requires an investment upfront I’ll
be completely honest here sometimes it
requires a very drastic change in how
you land scape is designed but not
always in like I said there’s some
things you can do today and just simple
habit changes that will give you a
massive amount of time back those are
the things we’re gonna be focusing on in
this podcast is is those things that
really really make a big difference and
in the long run give you the most impact
for the time spent or the money spent so
that’s where we’re gonna focus but
overall sometimes there is an investment
required to change your yard in a way
that makes it easier to maintain and
still has the beauty that you desire
because let’s face it you could make
your yard a low-maintenance yard right
now but it probably wouldn’t look the
way you would like it and not look away
that your neighborhood your neighbors
and your your city or Township would
accept so we’re talking about low
maintenance principles here that can
have your beautiful landscape your might
neighbors might not even notice that
you’re not out there every single day
until you’re sitting out there relaxing
while they’re mowing their yard every
day or every week there’s there’s a
funniest side right there as is we
actually do have one neighbor that mows
his yard every single day of the growing
season now that seems like a stretch but
it’s true this this guy’s out there my
wife when she was on maternity leave
with our oldest child she called me up
halfway through the week and we had
always always joked like how are you
know he’s out there every day and she
calls me a dead serious our neighbor has
been out there every single day like
it’s not a joke he’s been out there
every single day cutting his grass folks
that’s not a good thing to be doing
your time instead we can be I’m guessing
you probably I’m hoping that you’re not
out there every day with your landscape
and if you are you know we can change
that we can give you time back and I’m
glad you’re here if if that’s you but
I’m guessing you’re probably not out
there every single day that’s an extreme
of the circumstance but whatever it is
whatever your maintenance routine is I
can guarantee you that we’ll find ways
to reduce your maintenance needs in your
yard and still have a beautiful yard
sometimes in order to make this change
into having a beautiful yard you may
feel a little bit over your head and
we’re gonna be talking about a lot of
things you can do if you’re that
do-it-yourself for everything you want
to do yourself just to have whether it’s
to have control over it or reduce some
cost or whatever I totally get that
that’s where I come from is I have a
Duty yourself or background but I also
acknowledge that when it comes to a
landscape or when it comes to you know
any sort of project sometimes having an
expert to help you out with the design
or the implementation of it really pays
off in the long run it could save you
tons of time it can prevent certain
design flaws and it might really be
worth it so it’s something to consider
and we’ll get into hiring the right kind
of designer in future episodes but it’s
something just to point out right now
sometimes even with the design phase
there are certain things you can do that
really pay off and are worth the
investment sometime – you might want to
have a landscape maintenance program in
place I know there’s a lot of people
that don’t want anything to do with
their landscape and that’s fine you know
it frees up a lot of your time to do
other things that are potentially more
important in your life and sometimes the
investment of hiring a designer and
hiring a maintenance crew to take care
of your landscape can free up a lot of
that time now of course there’s an
investment required in that and if you
have the right kind of design the
maintenance program is drastically
reduced when it comes to your yard so
we’ll get into tips and tactics and
and finding the right designer as well
as the right maintenance programs for
your landscape and that way you might
not have to have a maintenance program
that comes by as frequently as is the
conventional landscape around you what
this does when you have this change in
vision and mindset about your yard where
your life and your family is more
important than your yard is it not only
increases your freedom from your
landscape but it also increases your
pride because you realize you can have a
beautiful landscape you can have what
you want out of your yard without having
to spend all this time and effort on it
so having to have the ability to
decrease your burden from your landscape
can actually increase your pride in it
and how well it’s designed and
maintained on a less frequent basis
we’re gonna talk about in later episodes
how you can actually involve your family
in your landscape and and surprisingly
sometimes get them in excited about
being in your landscape as well so when
you have a beautiful attractive
landscape that doesn’t take as much work
surprisingly your kids may actually want
to help you with the maintenance of it
and also spend time in it along with you
to enjoy it so a healthy beautiful
landscape is something where it’s an
inviting space for you your kids your
family and your friends to be in more
often and to enjoy it enjoy the variety
of your landscape enjoy the textures and
enjoy the space the inviting space that
it’s made to be and that’s what really
landscapes are supposed to be is to be
an extension of your home somewhere you
can go to escape to refresh and to
become invigorated with the the natural
surrounding of your own property so
that’s what I want for you and your
family
and I hope you want that too is that
your landscape is not just kind of a
pretty ribbon to tie around your house
but it’s something that’s actually an
inviting opening space that both
frontier
in backyard side yard can be something
where you want to be in that space to
enjoy it and and to maintain it in a way
where it’s not a ton of work and
sometimes it’s almost like a pleasurable
thing where you can do little bits of
maintenance along the way to reduce the
long term maintenance burden along with
creating an inviting space for you and
your family and your friends to be in
and to enjoy the space of your yard
there’s an additional piece that’s very
very important and it kind of comes hand
in hand with the whole inviting piece
and that is creating a healthy space for
your family and what I’m talking about
here is a lot of landscapes we’ve kind
of been in a way a little bit tricked
about what a healthy landscape is what a
great landscape is and so a lot of our
landscapes are full of chemicals that
are used to treat our landscapes and
also just kind of unhealthy practices or
not the most fun space so whether it’s
having to use a lot of chemicals to
maintain your landscape or simply to
have a space where the environment of
your landscape is not so healthy reduces
the health of you and your family as
well and so what I’m saying about the
environment piece is if you have a wide
open lawn totally surrounding your house
which let’s face it most landscapes in
the in the United States that’s how our
landscapes are is there’s a big wide
bond and and these can be very pretty at
times but they’re very susceptible to
extremes in temperature so if I’m out on
our front lawn our front lawn faces
south and it’s just it’s a there’s a
bank in front and so if I have the kids
out there playing and enjoying the time
usually we can only do that in summer
kind of mid morning and late evening
because the rest of the day it’s
scorching hot out there so how can we
design our landscapes to be comfortable
all day long and as much of the
year-round as possible so have spaces
where midday they’re well shaded and
nice cool spaces with a gentle breeze
that comes through in midsummer
so we have a space all day around in the
middle of the summer somewhere in our
landscape to enjoy so that’s what I’m
talking about not only being free of
certain harmful chemicals that can
potentially be harmful for your family
but also to be inviting spaces that are
healthy for your yard but also healthy
for your family to enjoy and to be
comfortable as much as possible as we
kind of wrap up here I want to talk
about some of the benefits of changing
this mindset so we can have more time to
do the things we want things we love or
to even complicate contemplate what we
could do with that time let’s face it
sometimes we’re just so busy we don’t
even get a chance to stop and think
about life or about what we would like
to do next or if there’s a next step for
us what is it and so here’s some of the
things that we could do if we had some
dedicated time for ourselves or for our
family first you could just simply have
more time with your family let’s face it
it’s so difficult with with full-time
jobs and with busy schedules to actually
sit down with your family and and create
an enjoyable space and enjoyable time
for all of our family members sometimes
we’re so stressed out so tired or
whatever when we do have that time it’s
difficult to be fully present and so
just by having more time on your
weekends away from having to take care
of your yard you can have more time to
spend dedicated to your family of being
fully present and being with them to
enjoy it same you could also spend that
time with your spouse more fully let’s
face it right now I’m having a very
difficult time we have a we have a
newborn in the household and my wife and
I we have a very difficult time just
being together and having time to go on
a date or whatever and just bring up
more time during the week to have time
together would be incredibly awesome
right now and and again we can talk
about
how we can do this how we can have more
time to do things like having more time
with our spouse some quality time that’s
what we’re talking about here is quality
time you can spend this time actually
working toward your life goals maybe you
don’t have life goals right maybe you
wish you had life goals well this is
time you could also spend just working
toward figuring out your life goals what
do you want to do with your life and can
you really make space to make a
difference well that’s what this time I
really want a suspended on is is fix our
landscape to help fix our lives to make
our lives better maybe you just want to
spend this time for relaxation right
it’s so hard with a go-go-go scheduling
out fully our weeks that we have a hard
time scheduling and just time to relax
and so when we get this time back for
ourselves and for our family let’s make
sure we have time to just relax and to
calm down for a little bit because
relaxing and calming down helps you
focus so much and need to start working
toward the things that are important and
overall this time can be used to help
develop relationships or to redevelop
relationships they’re so important to
keep in touch with friends family
members and making connections that it’s
so hard to do in a busy schedule so
again just freeing up a few hours a week
and several hours a year can really
build up to make a significant
difference in our lives
and so as we wrap up here again this
whole episode is about making the point
that our family and our lifestyle the
people around us are far more important
than our yard and so if we flip that
balance to say our yard is secondary to
our lifestyle how do we design our yard
to fit that priority shift is very very
important and we’ll learn how to make
that change in future episodes as we
kind of build the pieces together and to
help change your landscape and again if
you want to step out and start just
making simple habit changes right now
that can make a significant difference
in the amount of time you get back in
your life go to aesthetic ecosystems
calm / 27 hours for a free download
that’s ascetic ecosystems calm / – 7 hrs
and get your free download so you can
start making those changes today so now
we’re gonna be getting into the launch
party piece of our episode here and so
stick around get all sorts of
information about this launch party how
you can get eligible for free giveaways
ok now it’s time to talk about the
launch party guys excuse me not party
but partay the launch party is for the
first two months of the show from March
have some fun to help spread a war to
spread the word about the show I really
appreciate your enthusiasm and interest
in this show and I want to get you guys
involved and have some fun while we’re
doing it so this is a chance to have
some fun too for us to get connected to
win some prizes and let’s talk about the
prizes before we talk about what we’re
doing so what are the prizes weakly I’m
offering a free consultation with me Ben
Hale which is normally a $99 value so
one person each week that gets involved
in the launch partay gets a free
consultation I’m also giving away a free
offer for one of my ebooks ten ways to
get more beauty with less work which is
the $19 value next the grand prize there
is only one of these were giving away
through this whole launch party so at
the end of the launch partay the organic
lawn care manual by Paul – key so Paul –
key himself has offered to give away one
free book to a lucky winner that’s
getting involved in this launch party
and this book is all about how to manage
a healthy lawn from anything from a golf
course style on to your low-maintenance
lawn which of course is something I
prefer here on this show right
I own this book I’ve read this book
multiple times I’ve give it away it’s a
kind of a tattered and worn version that
I have and I use some of these practices
in my own lines so I love this book and
I highly promote it as well and you’ll
hear me talk about it throughout the
show
but Paul Tookie has been kind enough to
offer a copy of his book as a grand
prize and there’s also a special
surprise for everybody that’s going to
be getting involved in the launch partay
the rolling river nursery out of
California has offered a special
surprise for everybody that’s involved
the rolling river nursery is a USDA
certified organic nursery so I went
online and I looked around for nurseries
that have online availability ship
through the continental US and have some
great offerings and rolling River
nursery is being kind enough to become
involved with our launch party and
they’re not only are they online
availability but they also are certified
organic which means they don’t use any
harmful herbicides or pesticides that
you have to be concerned with your
family about and so what you’re getting
is a safe and healthy plant they also
offer a ton of edible plants and trees
and shrubs cacti and succulents so they
offer several trees and shrubs that are
adaptable throughout the most of the
United States so definitely worth
checking them out and in addition these
guys are also involved with a non-profit
in Southern California to help local
food movements called planting justice
org so if you want to learn more about
them you can go to rolling River nursery
com and I also want to give a shout out
to Paul to Kies website for his organic
lawn care manual and his other works is
Paul to keep calm PA UL t uke Y and to
sum up guys okay you want to learn how
to get involved with this launch party
go over to aesthetic ecosystems calm
slash pod launch and that’s p OD lau nch
there’s a link in the show notes and
that’s that’s going to give you all the
instructions on how to get involved
there’s two ways specifically to get
involved one is through sharing with
your peeps on Facebook and the other is
through leaving a review on iTunes
both of these are gonna help spread the
word about the show and get other people
other friends listening to it as well
and I sure appreciate your help here and
likewise this is gonna be a fun time so
so going over and to ascetic ecosystems
comm slash pod lunch to get involved
thanks so much for coming by
I into being part of this launch I’m so
excited to be launching this episode and
to be sharing my knowledge with you guys
and I want you to stick around and kind
of be witness as we change our landscape
as well to something beautiful easy to
maintain and healthy for our family and
I hope you do the same for yours so
thanks for tuning in and make sure you
live with passion and make tomorrow
better than today
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